How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 15:03
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Ask yourself:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Has anyone ever had sex with their cousin? How did it start, and would you do it again?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What CIA front organizations operated in the United States during the 1960s?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What are the challenges associated with the birth narratives of Jesus?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Are miracles real or do they just have natural explanations?
Procrastinates a lot.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What I need from you?
What's a memory from your childhood that shaped who you are today?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Do not set goals—set systems.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I earn money through OnlyFans?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What methods do private investigators use to investigate someone in real life?
Making more friends is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Hangs out with loser friends.
How do I study with focus and concentration and avoid distractions and procrastination?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Do crossdressers like wearing pantyliners and tampons in their butts?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
That's it for today.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.